AP Youth Week Of September 28 - October 4th

Hello 7th-12th Grade Families,

I hope you all are doing well and staying safe.

Abiding Presence Youth Ministry is off and running with our fall calendar! We had a terrific time last night at our first “Friday Night Lights” (rescheduled from Friday to Sunday due to rain).

Here’s a look at what is happening this week:

On Monday, September 28th, 12 - 2 PM we will be meeting outdoor homeroom! Come to the church parking lot and bring a snack, homework, laptops, and/or whatever you need for asynchronous learning. We will have Wi-Fi in the parking lot so you can spread out and get some space or sit near your friends (8 ft apart of course).

On Tuesday, September 29th, 4 - PM we have Small Groups meeting for 9th & 10th Graders this is a chance to get together in small groups not only games and fun but also for intentional conversation. This week we will be talking about scripture and what it means to us.

Our Abiding Fellows (11th & 12th grade) will meet this week on Monday, September 28 from 1:30-2:30 PM in-person in the parking lot or Wednesday, October 1 from 7:30-8:30 PM over Zoom.

We will continue to follow our safety protocol and ask everyone to wear a mask at all in-person events.

If you have any questions, suggestions, or ideas as we head into fall, please do not hesitate to be in touch.

Blessings,
Mr. Jon

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Trunk-or-Treat Drive Thru

Wednesday, October 28 from 5:30-6:30 p.m.

Our annual “Trunk-or-Treat” event will look a bit different this year, but still provide opportunities for fun for the whole family.

In order to keep everyone safe, participants will drive thru the parking lot from the safety of their vehicles to view our display of trunks and characters. At the end, we will hand out a bag of candy from a safe physical distance. Feel free to make it extra fun by dressing the kids up in their costumes for the drive thru.

Volunteers are needed to:

  • Donate bags of candy (drop off in the designated bin in front of the church by October 21)

  • Sign up for a parking spot in the lot to park your decorated trunk, stand in costume or create a display. All parking spots will be physically distanced in order to keep participants safe. Everyone in your parking spot will be asked to please wear a mask and follow COVID precautions. You do not have to stand with your decorated trunk. We will ask all trunks to be in place by 5:15 p.m. and plan to stay in place through the end of the event.

We hope this provides a safe way for our community to celebrate Halloween and the opportunity for the whole congregation to be engaged in this outreach event.

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Ways to Serve this Holiday Season

As the holidays approach, there are several ways to support families in need in our community:

  • Donate new and unwrapped toys to support ECHO’s holiday toy drive by Monday, November 30

Click “read more” to learn more about how to donate toys and the other ways we are serving in the community this holiday season.

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Step In, Speak Up!

Step In, Speak Up! for supporting LGBTQ youth is a 30-minute online training to concerned adults to support youth who may be struggling due to harassment or exclusion related to sexual identity, sexual orientation or other differences. All three trainings are listed in SPRC/AFSP Best Practices Registry.

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Kognito - Online Suicide Prevention Training for Interacting with At-Risk Youth

If you work with children/youth and are interested in short, engaging trainings that help prepare you for potentially challenging conversations, check this resource out: https://fairfax.kognito.com. In these 1-hour online trainings, users enter a virtual environment, assume the role of an educator, and engage in conversations with three emotionally-responsive virtual students that exhibit signs of psychological distress, including thoughts of suicide.

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Clarity Conversations for Parents of Teens Struggling w/ Substance Abuse

Gail Embt of "Break the Vape" will be offering Clarity Conversations for parents of teens struggling with substance use. They will be small virtual groups of 5-7 people, where parents will bring a challenge or issue they are currently struggling with. Leaders will walk them through the process of exploration and understanding and then brainstorm possible solutions and options for them. Feel free to reach out to her Gail.E@breakthevape.com

Fore more information on Break the Vape, check out their site: https://www.breakthevape.com/about

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So Close and Yet So Far

Last Sunday we hosted our first-ever “Kick-Off Sunday Drive Thru Blessing.” The past six months have been an endless series of “first-ever” moments and kicking off a new program was no exception. I continue to be impressed by the creativity of our staff, involvement of all of you and stirring of the Holy Spirit that is carrying us through these times. It is a good time to be the church, especially the people of God at Abiding Presence.

After waving and chatting with a steady stream of nearly 100 cars spread over two hours last Sunday, my heart was full. It was SO good to see all of you and have the chance to catch up for a moment. I loved seeing your faces, hearing about your summers and realizing how much our kiddos have grown. We were so close…and yet…so far, too. I longed to give hugs, share laughter and say, “Have a good week!” knowing that I would see you again in just a few short days.

We have several more “parking lot style” opportunities planned for this fall. Starting this Sunday, Michelle Galdames-Henry is hosting “Brunch Bunch” as an opportunity for kids to worship together with her in the parking lot. Second graders are invited this Sunday or next Sunday and can sign up here.

On Sunday, October 4 at 5:00 p.m. we will have our annual “Blessing of Pets & Stuffed Animals” service in the parking lot. This service lends itself well to being outdoors and distanced. We’ll ask all of the people to wear masks and practice social distancing (this will always be the case with our parking lot services/events). You will be able to either participate from your car in the parking lot or stand/bring lawn chairs to be in marked and distanced spots. We also have in the works a Reformation Sunday parking lot celebration after our outdoor confirmation service on October 25 and a special All Saints Sunday parking lot worship experience on Sunday, November 1 (stay tuned for details). Then, just wait for Christmas Eve when we’re planning a drive thru nativity experience, parking lot services and a late night livestream service! All that is to say, there will be lots of opportunities for us to safely see each other this fall!

Finally, I came across an article this week from the Pew Research Center titled “Will the Coronavirus Permanently Convert In-Person Worshipers to Online Streamers?” It reminded me that our current worship situation is temporary. For now, livestream worship is the best way we can be the church, but that won’t be the case forever. Soon, we’ll be back together again! If you need a laugh and some hope in the midst of this livestream season of worship, check out this fabulous Hamilton parody. It keeps me grounded in a fun way in the bigger picture of what is happening during these times.

If I can be of support, reach out! See you on the livestream this Sunday!

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News for Abiding Youth

Hello, 7th-12th Grade Families,

I hope you all are doing well and staying safe.

This week Abiding Presence Youth Ministry will be kicking off our fall calendar. This week’s event schedule and the September calendar are below. Here’s a look at what is coming.

On Monday, September 21st 12 - 2 PM we will have our first-ever outdoor homeroom! Come to the church parking lot and bring your homework, laptops and/or whatever you need for asynchronous learning. We will have Wi-Fi in the parking lot so you can spread out and get some space or sit near your friends (8 ft apart of course).

On Friday, September 25th from 7 - 8:15 PM is Friday Night Lights! This is an event for students to come, have fun, play games, and be together as a youth group. This Friday we will be hanging out, playing games together, and talking about plans for the future. These will be happening ever 2nd and 4th Friday of the month.

Small Groups for 9th & 10th Graders and Abiding Fellows for 11th & 12th graders are opportunities for students to gather in small groups to connect at various times during the week.

If you have any questions, suggestions, or ideas as we head into fall, please do not hesitate to be in touch.

Blessings,
Mr. Jon

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NAMINova Covid-19 Resource Guide

We recognize the importance of continuing to provide support to our community during this troubling and uncertain time. While working on adjusting our programs to meet social-distancing standards, we gathered some resources to help keep you safe. https://www.nami-northernvirginia.org/naminova-covid-19-resource-guide.html

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One More Step!

This Sunday, we will have our first livestream baptism. It’s one more step we are taking as a church during these pandemic times. When we started livestream worship back in March, we didn’t have communion. After Easter and a lot of prayerfully deliberation, we responded to the Holy Spirit’s nudging to figure out a way to offer the sacrament of Holy Communion. Now, we’re responding to that nudging again as we get ready to creatively celebrate the sacrament of Holy Baptism in our livestream worship, too.

Earlier in the pandemic, I wrote a reflection on What is the Church?” I went back to the Augsburg Confession (part of our confessional documents) and the definition of the church found in it. We are told there that the church needs three things to be the church:

1. Saints (that’s people like us, even in our least saintly moments)
2. The Gospel (that’s the Word of God) rightly taught
3. The Sacraments (Holy Baptism and Holy Communion) rightly administered

Reflecting on this definition of the church is part of what challenged me back in April to expand my imagination, sacramental theology and understanding of how God is in relationship with us to lead us to livestream Holy Communion. For the past several months, we have experienced the Holy Spirit showing up each Sunday to join us together as one when we share in the bread and wine that is Christ’s body and blood. We have been – and continue to be – united from all of our different places, with the Holy Spirit and the risen Christ on the loose in the world and our homes. Now, this Sunday, I know that the Holy Spirit will show up in the same way. As a faith community, we will welcome Mackenzie into the body of Christ and the faith family of Abiding Presence.

On the livestream this Sunday, you will see Pastor Joe in the sanctuary and me “on location” in Mackenzie’s backyard with her parents, godparents and grandparents. There will be a backyard version of an altar and a baptismal font set up. We’ll practice physical distancing. While I will speak the words of the baptismal liturgy, Mackenzie’s family will be the ones to pour the water over her head and trace the cross of Christ on her forehead. We’ll do this live. We know the Holy Spirit will work, we’re hoping our technology works, too!

Let me assure you, we are going back to worship in the sanctuary! I have no doubt about it. We are already planning and preparing for what that will look like when the time is right to do so in a safe and healthy way. But, that time has not yet come. Honestly, I don’t expect to come this fall. So, instead of continuing to wait, we are going to move forward. We’re going to get back to baptizing, welcoming new members, first communion, affirmation of baptism and all sorts of other aspects of our worship life that we had put on hold. So, if you’ve been waiting for a baptism, let’s chat! I’d love to find a creative way to make it happen as part of our livestream worship.

Here’s the thing about the church. The saints, gospel and sacraments that make the church have not changed one bit! We are still the church. We are “Abiding Together” because God is abiding with us. I cannot wait to see what that looks like this fall, even if it won’t look like it usually does.

So, set your alarm, get your phone/tablet/computer/tv ready and join us for worship this weekend as we celebrate yet another first of these pandemic times! The Holy Spirit will certainly be there. I hope you will be there, too.

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Kick-Off Sunday Drive Thru Blessing

Sunday, September 13 from 11:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. in the Parking Lot

We want to invite the whole congregation to celebrate kick-off Sunday in drive-thru style. Come drive through the parking lot at Abiding Presence for a back-to-school/back-to-work/still-in-pandemic-times blessing because these days we could all use a bit of blessing! Students and adults are encouraged to bring their electronic devices to hold up in the car to receive a blessing, too. We’ll have blessing stickers, September “grab and go bags” for Sunday School and “acolyte at home kits.” The staff will be there to wave from a safe distance and say hello. There will even be some surprises along the way as you drive. You don’t want to miss this event!

Please consider bringing non-perishable food donations for our food ministry. You can see the list of most needed items here. We will have volunteers waiting to unload donations from your trunk as your drive thru.

We will be asking everyone to please stay in their vehicle as they drive thru. If you would like to roll down your window to say hello, please plan to wear a mask. Watch for the signs at the entrance to the parking lot so you can tune your radio to our official “Abiding Presence Parking Lot Radio Station.”

See you on Sunday!

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Sunday Morning Schedule this Fall

Next Sunday, September 13, begins our new Sunday morning schedule. Read all about it here.

9:30 a.m. - Opportunities to Connect over Zoom
Abiding Table at Home (Adults)
Family Sunday School (Toddler, Preschool & Elementary School Children)
Confirmation (7th & 8th Graders)

10:00 a.m. - Livestream Worship
Coffee Hour will take place immediately following worship on Zoom

Stay tuned for the Zoom links that will be sent out next week for Abiding Table at Home, Family Sunday School and Confirmation.

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Fall Digital Preschool Camp

Register is now open for Abiding Presence’s Fall Digital Preschool Camp! Building on the success of this summer’s digital summer camp, we’re offering a special fall camp just for three- and four-year olds. It will be an online opportunity over Zoom to get a taste of what preschool is like while connecting with peers and caring adults.

When: Tuesdays and Thursdays 9:30 - 10:15 a.m. (September 22 - November 12)

Who: Children who are age 3 by September 30, 2020 and turning age 5 no sooner than October 31, 2020

Where: All sessions will take place via Zoom. "Grab and go bags” will be provided with all of the necessary materials.

Cost: Suggested donation of $45/child and $25/each additional child. Donations can be made at AbidingPresence.net/give or via check mailed to the church office.

Registration: Please register here. Registration is limited in order to keep the class size small.

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